So it's the planning, the thinking, the... making sure you're actually investing the time. It's one thing to just sit there and be there, but it's actually of being present within that time.
We kind of talked about this a couple of weeks ago, but if you allotted out that time, what are you investing in that time? Have you made plans, thoughts about what you're going to do with that time to make it a huggable experience, really.
I hope during this week with your Christmas and the holidays here, you just put a little bit more effort into not just setting aside that time, but investing in planning the time that you're already using.